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New York, NY

Polyamorous & ENM dating in New York

One of the largest polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous communities in the country, with events happening most nights of the week.

Infinite Love Connections is an 18+ dating platform for open relationships, polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. Create a free profile to meet people near New York, New York who want the same kind of relationship you do.

How dating works in New York

Create a free profile

Share your relationship style, what you're looking for and your boundaries — before anyone in New York messages you.

Add to Family or Pass

Browse members near you and choose Add to Family when someone fits your life. Mutual choices create a connection.

Message with intention

One thoughtful introduction beats a hundred copy-pasted openers. Chat once you've both said yes.

Areas we cover around New York

  • Brooklyn
  • Manhattan
  • Queens
  • Jersey City
  • Hoboken

Relationship styles here

  • Polyamorous
  • Open relationship
  • Relationship anarchy
  • Solo poly
  • Hierarchical poly
  • Kitchen table poly
  • Swinging
  • Monogamish
  • Curious / exploring ENM

Adults only. Every New York member agrees to our consent-first community guidelines, and blocking and reporting are always one tap away.

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